It is so easy for people who have shared similar experiences to establish a friendship

In most of the things that we go through it often feels like we are alone in our experinces. Talking about is way of dealing with it and sometimes you feel better once you’ve let it all out. Although it would be nicer to talk to someone who has at least been through an experience like yours rather than talk with just anyone.

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People who have shared a similar experience to you understand your situation much better and you can easily relate to them. Talking to someone who has never been in your shoes will likely get you the clichéd response that things are going to e fine

Someone who has been through similar experiences will not only give you words of encouragement but objective and sound advice as well. Having thought it through I decided to try it out and talk to someone who had been in my shoes before. Would you believe at the end of it we were sharing tea and having a few laughs about it too?

you will get people who tell you that you should talk with a counselor, psychologist and I agree they are professionals but sometimes you just need to be around someone that is genuine you know. You need to talk to someone who will be at ease with you rather than quote you passages from a text book. everyday words coming from a genuine person can be more uplifting than words from a text book.

You are able to look at your situation objectively and come up with possible solutions. Even though the problem may still be there just knowing that someone went thorough it and made it goes a long way.You will be in a position to appreciate that even the most painful experiences can be lived through.

Ending a relationship is not always easy especially if it’s the other partner who decided they wanted out and not you. Don’t follow them around try to get them back into the relatioship. Spending time on the phone trying to get them to see things from your point of view wont help either.

You could even make use of one of these to help you cope with your break up: words for a broken relationship encouragement poems encouragement for women

I am not saying that you should cut all communication, but you need to take a step back and give this person time to think things through without you being labeled a problem in the process. Do call the person but do not talk about the relationship, talk about other things approach the whole thing from an angle of friendship. If the problem was temporary and your partner just needed some time alone then it should wear off.

If however the relationship is beyond saving then do not waste time on it . There are lots of people who you would rather be with anyway. Your family and friends will always be there for you. Just give yourself time and focus on moving on.

At this point advice streams in like spend time with other people, hang out and so on. Yes this does help until of course that odd moment when you are alone and your mind wonders off back to the past. So besides spending time with other people you should think about the things that you enjoy doing on your own.

I t could be anything really not matter how minor, if it gives you quality you time then its good. People have a variety of things that they enjoy, like reading movies, playing sport, traveling and so on. Even if it’s just sitting in front of your computer and doing whatever, being alone shouldn’t make you feel awkward. These are just some tips and ideas, you can find sites where this whole subject is opened up, broken down and made so simple getting over a break won’t be the heartache you think it is.

 

Someone once said to me that friendships are established the moment when someone says ‘wow that happened to me too….’

There are so many things that we experience in life and half the time we feel alone in those experiences. Talking about is way of dealing with it and sometimes you feel better once you’ve let it all out. But wouldn’t it better instead of just letting it all out you could also find someone who understands what you’ve been through, someone who has shared a similar experience.

For some really inspirational and uplifting words you could look up any of the following: letter of encouragement christian encouragement words of encouragement in death

It is always good to get words of encouragement from someone who has been through what you are going through because they understand how it feels like to be in your shoes. I always feel cheated when I share my problems with someone who has no idea what its like being in my situation and all they can tell me is ‘don’t worry things will be fine.’

Someone who has been through similar experiences will not only give you words of encouragement but objective and sound advice as well. I recall one time after learning this concept I approached a friend of mine in a similar position as me for a shoulder to cry on. believe it or not it was more than tea that we ended up sharing, we managed a few good laughs and I wasn’t so worried anymore

you will get people who tell you that you should talk with a counselor, psychologist and I agree they are professionals but sometimes you just need to be around someone that is genuine you know. You need to talk to someone who will be at ease with you rather than quote you passages from a text book. Natural and meaningful words said at the right time are more than uplifting.

You regain your focus and are able to think positively about your situation. The problem may still be there but now you have solution, a direction that you can take and be able to move on. Ultimately no matter how painful an experience maybe you must be able to get up and carry on with your life.