One of the greatest problems of marriage and relationships, however, is cheating. Marriage and relationships are difficult to start, and even harder to maintain especially with a number of problems that can occur. Money issues and investments, spending habits to start are a widespread problem. Raising children guidelines, relationships with kids, stepkids, allowing things in house or tv or computers can cause relationship issues too. There is the constant need of men to feel that they have the reins in the relationship, and the constant need of women to feel valued and affirmed.
Statistics of cheating on spouses by a little under half of women and just over half of mem can be discouraging to young men and women who want to engage in romantic relationships, and to couples who wish to solidify their union by tying the knot.
Cheating, sadly, happens to even the best of husbands or wives but how do you tell
There are telltale physical signs that come with cheating, and they are often manifested as everyday occurrences that are annoying, before they become completely suspicious. Men, due to their biology and psychology, often cheat because they are looking for excitement in life, and miss the thrill of the hunt that comes with chasing and winning a woman. Women, on the other hand, due to high expectations, are often disillusioned when they discover that their boyfriends or spouses do not live up to their requirements for a Prince Charming. They can end up cheating to find a man who will fill in the gap that seems to exist in their lives.
Here are a few physical signs that a man is cheating.
- Because men will often be on the prowl and will want to re-experience the excitement that comes with courtship, the signs of cheating men will often involve dressing to win, improving image with new clothes, especialy underwear.He may also spend more time at the gym, and may work out even more frequently.
- He will often change his sexual behavior, and will often totter between looking for sex all the time, to refusing it from his wife or girlfriend possibly even trying several new positions.
- He will often ride on a guilt trip and still be the winning man by buying his wife or girlfriend unexpected, expensive gifts, or by helping around the house more often than usual.
Because a woman constantly needs affirmation, and because she will seek to fill a gap in her life when she cheats, her physical signs are slightly different.
- Like the cheating man, the cheating woman will go more often to the gym, and will change her appearance. Unlike the cheating man, however, who seems to be on a guilt trip, she will have a glow about her. A cheating woman will often dress provocatively, and will often have lingerie in the hamper that her husband or boyfriend will discover – lingerie that she has never worn in front of her husband or boyfriend.
- A cheating woman will often sulk around the house and appear lifeless in the presence of her husband or boyfriend because she is used to not receiving praise from her man, and is thus dependent, almost addicted to the new secret man in her life.
- A married, cheating woman will most often forget to wear her wedding ring.
In general, changes in appearance can signal that a man or woman is cheating. Frequent phone calls, in which the partner uses low voices or whispers, can often be the sign that an affair is going on, and may perhaps be more serious than previously perceived.
Individually, these physical signs are not automatically signs that an affair is going on. However, taken together, they may be reason for suspicion.
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