She’s currently out of your life, but you obviously want her back into it. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.
Get her to call you without asking
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren’t bills! So you send her a letter telling her how good things are for you right now. And you also say you want to thank her.
This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She’s curious as to why you want to thank her, and then pride kicks in because you’ve thanked her. We all love being thanked. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. But she did anyway and that was the whole point of the exercise.
I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are a few other good tricks like this as well.
Memories are there to be used
By this I mean everyone has memories that are treasured, and these can be used for your advantage. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.
If she ever comes to your place or calls you (after receiving the letter!). You have the song on in the background just loud enough for her subconscious mind to hear it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.
Make her a bit jealous & curious
Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.
These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.
What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.
You can find out what I think are the best couple of all round systems that will show you exactly how to win her back at my website …
