If you’ve recently split and decided being single is not all it’s cracked up to be. Here are a few things you can’t do if you want to get your ex back. Most people will end up doing one or the other of these simply because they know no different.
1 – Spreading lies about your ex
This little no-no will put an end to any possible chance you have of getting them back. Turn the situation around and imagine they were spreading lies about you. I know I would be mortified if my recent ex was doing this. If my ex were telling lies about me then that would be the end of it, for good.
2 – Trying to make your ex feel jealous
Although this can work to a certain extent if used right. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. You can easily get the wrong reaction here, instead of a little jealousy they may just feel disgust and decide it’s over for ever.
3 – The stalker
Do I really need to say anything at all about this one? I do, ok then. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.
4 – Seeking revenge
Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? Getting revenge in any way shape or form on your ex must mean you don’t really love them as much as you claim to. You simply don’t hurt the one you love.
5 – Pestering them with calls or texts
This is almost like electronic stalking but it’s just as serious. You could seriously drive your ex round the bend with this text torture. The last thing you want is to be seen as a text pest. They may just ignore your calls but they may take it further and change their number. Then you’ve lost them forever.
So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. Some things will increase the odds in your favour but they aren’t them, so avoid them.
Take a bit of advice and spend some time getting yourself in the right frame of mind to move forward with your plan. With your emotions under control you give yourself every chance of steering your ex back to you.
When I split & wanted to get my wife back I turned to a step by step system that was so easy to follow a child could have done it.
Getting your ex back should be your choice, and not left to fate.
