Ending a relationship is not always easy especially if it’s the other partner who decided they wanted out and not you. Don’t follow them around try to get them back into the relatioship. Spending time on the phone trying to get them to see things from your point of view wont help either.
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I am not saying that you should cut all communication, but you need to take a step back and give this person time to think things through without you being labeled a problem in the process. Do call the person but do not talk about the relationship, talk about other things approach the whole thing from an angle of friendship. If the problem was temporary and your partner just needed some time alone then it should wear off.
If however the relationship is beyond saving then do not waste time on it . There are lots of people who you would rather be with anyway. Your family and friends will always be there for you. Just give yourself time and focus on moving on.
At this point advice streams in like spend time with other people, hang out and so on. Yes this does help until of course that odd moment when you are alone and your mind wonders off back to the past. So besides spending time with other people you should think about the things that you enjoy doing on your own.
I t could be anything really not matter how minor, if it gives you quality you time then its good. People have a variety of things that they enjoy, like reading movies, playing sport, traveling and so on. Even if it’s just sitting in front of your computer and doing whatever, being alone shouldn’t make you feel awkward. These are just some tips and ideas, you can find sites where this whole subject is opened up, broken down and made so simple getting over a break won’t be the heartache you think it is.
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