Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
Here are the results from a survey done by a well-known dating site.
Choose the most important aspects in a lover:
1. Looks 11%
2. Personality 30%
3. Body 5%
4. Sense of Humor 14%
5. Eyes 10%
6. Popularity 0%
7. Smile 12%
8. Hair 7%
9. Education 7%
10. Career 3%
So you see, personality rated top, overwhelmingly!
What does this mean for a person? What does it mean for the dater and the datee? This says that personality, regardless of what end of the table you are on, is a desireable character trait from either person’s point of view.
Now, ‘Looks’ is in many cases categorized as a visual representation of a person. But as I have explained, ‘Personality’ was ranked number one. Personality, being confident in yourself, an engaging demeaner, warmth, and authenticity are the traits that win out over visual appearance. So many of us are caught up on physical appearance, we get halted before we get started. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an independent listener to check in with can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.
What are traits of personality? Being confident. Self-confidence to be precise. The ability to relax, enjoy, and communicate in relaxed and intense subjects. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not hard to grasp.
What are inherent traits of being self-confident?
1. Knowing what you want.
2. Self-assurance. Feeling sure that what you desire is within your grasp.
3. Self-esteem. Knowing you are worthy of what you desire.
4. Poise. Under most situations you remain level-headed.
What I’m pointing to is the non-physical characteristics of ‘Personality’. A stimulating personality has nothing to do with physical appearance. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of creative energy!
A lot of people I have met, whether they are getting back into the dating scene, or just considering it get halted with forces of the game. “I am not a spring chicken anymore.” “I can’t compete with the hotties.” “The singles game is so superficial.”
This type of internal dialogue will never allow you back into circulation. Feeling confident, holding an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile and acting kindly, are the best traits to hold to. Realize that you do not need to do the singles dating scene. You can find Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t hold yourself by what others are saying.
