Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationships Coach , writes…
I attracted emotionally unavailable men, men who were a long distance away, or were always traveling. Although my father was emotionally unavailable, I thought that because I consciously knew it, I’d purposefully have loving relationships with people that were available. Even approaching the last relationship I had prior to achieving my relationship breakthrough, the guy I was in a relationship with would not be in a real committed relationship.
I got the Law of Attraction principles and figured I was operating well putting those principles into practice. However, there was a piece that was continuously out of place.
As a Law of Attraction Coach, I am very clear in saying that those of us who really want to be in a relationship that causes your heart to sing – not just any kind of relationship – but a really wonderful, fulfilling, love partnership – it takes a special kind of honed desire.
Many people who are trying to understand the Law of Attraction and how it will work for them in their lives are really asking, “What do I need to change? What do I have to do differently? What I have been trying is not going anywhere.” You can manifest Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of positive potential!
So you’ve been asking, and wanting a wonderful, committing love relationship and you desire to understand, where is he? Why do I keep attracting the person I don’t want?
Let us go over some Law of Attraction basics.
When trying to understand the Law of Attraction, we’ve established that our cosmos is a vibrating Universe – that everything is made of energy. This energy is in continuous movement and is always expanding and is vibrating at all times. Everything IS energy. Your ideas, your shirt, cosmic bodies, animals… everything. The contents of your mind are energy and have the power to manifest. Your thoughts are manifest if you know about the Law of Attraction or not.
The question is, “What kinds of thoughts are going through your head? What quality do your thoughts have? Are you paying close attention to your wants from a perspective of expectation or a point of negativity?
By honed desire I am talking about the type of desire that is focused unwaveringly on what you want from the perspective of already having what it is you want, rather than being focused in opposition to what you desire.
As stated before, the Law of Attraction explains that “what you place your mind on will expand in your life experience. So it’s extremely important to understand whether you are wanting from a point of lacking what you desire or from a perspective of already having it.
Desiring from the place of lack (that is, searching for your idea from a perspective of ‘Why isn’t it here yet?’) places you in the resisting mode. Better said, the Universe energetically mirrors your thoughts, expectations, and your beliefs about your thoughts – you are projecting a primary frequency about love – with situations and people that are paired with your beliefs.
I just got off the phone with a woman in my Magnetic Attraction Program. She wanted to know why her complaining, negative friend just got engaged, while she remains single and alone. Did you see what just happened? Can you guess why? Does this sound like you? Number 1 keep your mind on your energy. What another is doing is none of your business. If you’re comparing what’s out there to what’s happening with you, you will be doomed every single time. Conscious creation is an inside job. Imagine and feel your way to what you desire. Number 2, this person has her mind focused on staying single and alone. The universe will simply work with that! The Universe says: “Oh, Mary wants more of the single and lonely experience. We love her so much and would never go against her free will. Here’s more of what she is desiring”.
The program that I was using was “I am playing it safe and perpetually hold a little back. This way if my relationship goes sour, I can simply escape without too much hurt”.
If you’re single and wanting true love, ask yourself: “What is my dominant vibration or limited belief concerning it being possible for me?” Bring up those blocks, think and feel yourself to a new feeling place. You can shift your point of attraction immediately. Now all you have to do is continue there and love the result.
